Couples & Group Coaching
Are you or your partner(s) new to polyamory? Or maybe you’ve been doing this for a while but are bumping up against some new challenges. As a polyamorous person, I know what a vulnerable place this can be.
Through couples/polycule coaching, we can work on anything you’re struggling with. Some of the common issues I help couples and polycules troubleshoot are:
Recovering from infidelity or broken agreements
Coping with jealousy, envy, and distress that disrupts the relationship
Having different attachment styles
Adjusting to new partners/metamours
Creating relationship agreements that will honor you as individuals as well as the relationship
Major relationship transitions
Developing healthier communication
Learning to better manage conflict together
Heidi is highly skilled at providing a safe environment for learning and sharing, and disarms any hesitancy you might have in sharing uncomfortable or difficult parts of your relationship challenges. Her energetic personality also makes these sessions fun! She's one of the most well-educated people we have met in the poly community, and we plan to keep working with her for a very long time!
C&D
We really loved your expert guidance as we worked through a tricky transition! Your perspective and practical advice meant everything to us. I can say that our 4 sessions with you brought us more into harmony than the previous year and a half of traditional counseling.
D&T
You want guidance, support, and an outside perspective, but you don’t want to entrust your relationship to someone who might not fully understand the complexities of polyamory.
I understand how important it is to get support that is not rooted in monogamous practices or beliefs. And I’ve heard so many horror stories from my clients about well-meaning couples therapists who have given polyamorous couples terrible advice.
As someone who loves and lives polyamorously, I can offer you guidance that is not rooted in monogamy mindset.
I’ve been supporting polyamorous people in relationships for almost a decade, and I’ve learned a lot about what does and does not work for people. My experience means I can offer a lot of potential options when you are stuck, and will share with you what I’ve seen work and what to consider with each option. Together we can come up with plenty of creative solutions for your stuck spots.

My work as a coach is informed by my background and training in family and couples therapy, as well as over 10 years of experience working with polyamorous people.
Let’s work together to get your relationships to a place of strength and resilience so that you can be good to each other and your other partners.
If you are interested in working with me as a couple or polycule, you can sign up here
One 75 minute Zoom call with me - $275*
*This pricing is for up to 3 people. Reach out to me for special pricing for larger polycules